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the rugby veto

8/1/2018

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Back home after our Norway trip, Beth bought the new Harry Potter book, The Half-Blood Prince. I didn’t need to wait long to read her copy. During a family trip to Columbus to see Ben, we watched Murderball, a documentary about the remarkable U.S. Paralympics quad rugby team that competed in Athens, Greece. Rugby was an aggressive sport with frequent injuries, and caught Beth’s interest when a friend invited her to use his special rugby wheelchair at a Columbus practice. Ben volunteered to pick her up off the court floor when she got knocked out of the chair. I loved to hear them laugh.
           
Coach Peggy vetoed Beth's plans to participate in a rugby practice, and also the sit skiing she wanted to try. Peggy reminded her that broken bones would derail her freestyle and Beijing goals. Beth technically could swim with a broken leg, with no cast, but the increased spasms would slow her down.
           
“Peggy is immensely caring,” Beth said, “and she thrived on the challenge of coaching me in a new way.”
           
In late July, I flew with Beth and Peggy to Portland, Oregon for a rare national meet at an outdoor pool. Swimming under the hot sun meant the few with quadriplegia contended with fevers, since their body temperatures couldn’t regulate normally.
           
Despite a rising body temperature, Beth earned American Records in the 200 free and 50 back. She would’ve added another in the 150 Individual Medley (IM) except for an uneven touch at the ending wall. A disqualification. Beth’s right hand bent into a fist more than the left, so Peggy started the paperwork to apply for an IPC exception.
           
In Portland, no other S3 women competed. This meant Beth couldn’t see swimmers on either side of her during races, since faster swimmers with higher-numbered classifications quickly moved out of her sight at the start. After a race, a reporter asked about her decision to give up the spot she earned for the Athens Paralympics.
 
“I’m definitely not going to miss out on China,” Beth said, “and have put myself on a three-year training schedule to qualify.”
           
Between swim sessions, we drove the Columbia River Scenic Highway to picturesque waterfalls, with Mount Hood in the distance. Beth and I recalled the view of Mount Rainier where her swimming journey started. We wondered where we would be if we hadn’t gone to Seattle—where Beth set big swimming goals, and where we saw the unusual billboard with the caption, “Quadriplegia at Harvard: A+.”
 
Next: Back to Cambridge for Year 2!
6 Comments
Jason Rhode link
8/2/2018 10:01:24 am

I loved Murderball! I've got Mark Zupan as a friend on FB. Another interesting read, Cindy.

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Cindy Kolbe
8/5/2018 08:04:09 pm

Thanks, Jason. I appreciate your support!

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Amy Henry link
8/4/2018 10:03:32 am

I admire Beth's ability to sift through what's on offer in her life, set goals, and not get distracted from those.

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Cindy Kolbe
8/5/2018 08:06:33 pm

Amy, me too! I wish I had that kind of strength and determination. Maybe someday! :-)

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Nancy link
8/5/2018 01:59:18 pm

I love how Beth is always going out there and giving it her best. It is a bummer that the coach vetoed Beth's plans. I mean at the end of the day, we should give people the opportunity to participate. Major congrats to Beth for earning the American Records. Keep it up!

Nancy ♥ <a href="https://exquisitely.me">exquisitely.me</a>

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Cindy Kolbe
8/5/2018 08:10:56 pm

Thanks, Nancy! Since she’s not competing in swimming anymore, she’ll probably try rugby and sit-skiing someday. I just don’t want to watch! #riskysports

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