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4/17/2019

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Beth and I flew together to Minneapolis the first weekend in April. At the Trials meet, she would probably earn a spot on the Beijing team. Even so, nothing was guaranteed. 

Everything hinged on how fast she swam in the next three days.
    
We welcomed Coach Becca to her first Paralympic meet. She met Peggy after emailing back and forth about training goals and workouts for almost two years. Beth laser-focused on swimming fast. No shopping at the Mall of America in the afternoon as she did at her first Minneapolis meet five years before. From the upper tier seats, I wrote to-do lists with end of college details and watched races.
    
A young girl from the United States in her early teens swam as an S3, newly classified. She didn’t make finals cuts, like many at their first national meet. Judging from her expression, she saw the possibilities as Beth had six years before. No one had any way of knowing the new swimmer would be reclassified to S2 and S1 in the future, caught in the vague criteria of the low-numbered classifications. However, I had no doubt she’d be at the next Paralympic meet, getting faster and making more new friends. 
    
The morning after Trials, the ceremony to announce the Beijing Paralympics team filled the pool lobby. 

They called out names randomly, not alphabetically. The swimmer or coach moved through the crowd to be congratulated at the front. Each received a red, white, and blue hockey jersey with USA on the front and their last name sewn on the back in large letters. As the number at the front grew, I questioned my expectations. Beth glanced my way, and I responded with an encouraging smile. Then Peggy stood at the front with the team. 

Hearing my daughter’s name a minute later, we all shared a wave of relief and elation. 
    
Beth put on her hockey jersey with Kolbe in big letters on the back. As cameras flashed, she never stopped smiling, basking in the achievement of her four-year goal. To share the good news, I talked to John in Waltham while Beth called Coach Becca who had left the day before. Faithful to our tradition, we outlined Beijing plans with Peggy over scoops of chocolate ice cream. 

​Next: Tattoo!

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Jan Robinson link
4/18/2019 08:50:00 am

Congratulations!!
That is so exciting. Brought tears of joy to my eyes (by the way you are a great writer)
Happy days, happy Easter ...... Jan :-) xoxo

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Cindy Kolbe link
4/28/2019 08:50:57 pm

Thanks so much, Jan! Happy days to you as well!!

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Jason Rhode link
4/18/2019 04:06:08 pm

That must've been nerve-wracking and exciting at the same time.

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Cindy Kolbe link
4/28/2019 08:53:19 pm

You're right, Jason! It was both relief and elation to hear her name called to join the team.

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Kit Casey link
4/19/2019 04:30:28 am

I am so happy for you both.
Congratulations Beth. Amazing achievement. Xx

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Cindy Kolbe link
4/28/2019 08:54:47 pm

Thank you, Kit! It was a memorable moment. :-)

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mark kent
4/20/2019 04:47:55 am

people never see the every day effects.i am disabled i have m.e.
migraines .ibs long list health issues .i take part in a lot lot research
i am from England
my blog,http;//mark-kent.webs.com
twitter.supersnooper

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Cindy Kolbe link
4/28/2019 09:03:20 pm

Hi Mark! Yes, you're right that many people don't understand disability. I'm trying to do my part to change that fact!

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