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8/14/2019

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After five years on the U.S. Paralympic National Swim Team, my daughter Beth’s smooth freestyle beat her backstroke times. Within her S3 female classification of mostly quads (those with quadriplegia) from around the world, the ability to swim the freestyle placed her in an even smaller sub-group of less than a dozen who could swim a forward stroke in addition to the backstroke.

Have you ever tried to swim the freestyle without moving your legs and with hands that can’t cup the water?

September 13th was the day of Beth’s freestyle race at the Beijing Paralympics. In the packed Water Cube for morning prelims, I watched in dismay as another swimmer in Beth’s heat moved too soon. The false start sent all eight of them back to begin again. It was an unfortunate and rare occurrence for arguably the most important race in Beth’s swimming career. It could be difficult to mentally refocus, and she needed to place in the top eight to progress to finals that evening.

Beth placed sixth in the race that immediately followed the false start, an outstanding swim that qualified her for the 50 free final race.

That evening, the antics of the big pink cow mascots attempted to diffuse the tension of finals. Exuberant spectators packed the stands. In the ready room before her most-anticipated race, Beth listened to the Van Halen song “Jump” on her iPod, smiling at the “Right Now!” refrain. After 50 months of continuous year-round workouts, this was it! Her favorite coach, Peggy, pushed Beth’s wheelchair up the ramp to her lane.

”I felt prepared going in from all my amazing training at Harvard behind me,” Beth wrote, “and I was able to enjoy the moment as my heat was paraded out onto the deck and behind the blocks.”

With music and fanfare, the announcer introduced the eight S3 competitors for the 50 free from Australia, Germany, Great Britain, China, Singapore, Mexico, and South Africa. Plus, the USA! I took a photo of Beth waving on a big screen as she was introduced. I watched a competitor jump on one leg to the starting blocks. Two others walked. They climbed onto the blocks to jump off while the other five, including Beth, started the race in the water.

For maybe the hundredth time, Peggy lay flat on her stomach with her body on the deck and her shoulders and head over the pool. She grabbed my daughter’s ankles to hold her feet on the starting wall. Beth floated parallel to the lane lines, then turned on her left side with her right arm straight and pointing the way. She held still until the buzzer sounded, and the event began.

Eight women left the starting wall, most swimming the backstroke.

Beth’s forward freestyle looked effortless and beautiful. An extraordinary work of art. I stood with her friend Brittany in the USA section. We yelled as loud as we could, though with most of the crowd cheering for the Chinese swimmer, Beth heard only an enthusiastic din. She could see other competitors as she swam, and she gave it her all.

“I swam a 1:10.55, a best time and a new American Record, which places me fifth in the world,” Beth said. “What a great race!”
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Amy Henry link
8/17/2019 10:43:50 am

"I watched in dismay as another swimmer in Beth’s heat moved too soon."

Spoken like a true mom. We never really get past that, do we? 😄

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Cindy Kolbe link
8/17/2019 02:23:08 pm

Amy, that's so true. Once a mom, always a mom! Sometimes I wish I could manipulate the universe a bit to make things easier for my kids. But then, I've learned along the way that are more important things than life being easy. ❤️

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Jason Rhode link
8/20/2019 12:02:06 pm

Classic Van Halen...YES!
A new American record, Beth, you badass!

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Cindy Kolbe link
8/22/2019 04:39:13 pm

The Van Halen song was her coach's favorite swim meet song, and it soon became Beth's, too. The time is . . . now! :-)

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