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a new scar

11/6/2018

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Back home in Tiffin, Ohio, I accepted an activities job at the upscale Elmwood nursing home. Almost 30 years earlier, 19 and newly married, I worked as the first manager of Elmwood’s first group home in the nearby town of Clyde.
           
I worked five days a week on the Alzheimer’s unit, learning more than I wanted to know about the disease.
 
On the best days, we sang songs, told stories, made crafts, played games, walked together, and laughed. On the worst days, a sweet woman died in her bed or alarms blared when residents unable to walk thought they could. Or someone fell. Or a medical emergency required an ambulance.
 
Sirens always reminded me of the night of my car accident.
                       
One November morning, Beth stopped at the dining hall for coffee on the way to a Harvard Women’s Swimming and Diving home meet. The cup slipped and scalding liquid spilled on her left thigh. She felt discomfort, but when she removed her leggings at Blodgett, she didn’t expect to see the small red hole in her thigh. Her coaches discussed the emergency room and asked a dermatologist friend in the stands to look at it. The doctor, a former college swimmer, cleaned and covered the third-degree burn, emphasizing the need to prevent infection. Wide scarring when it healed would be unavoidable. It surprised me that the dermatologist gave her permission for Beth to compete at the meet.
           
I heard about the burn the same day, but not the severity.
 
She neglected to disclose all the details. She left out the part about the burn exposing the bone. I assumed it wasn’t serious since the doctor and coaches allowed her to swim. She didn’t want me to worry. Nevertheless, I was alarmed when I saw the burn a few weeks later.
           
Skin problems healed slowly for quads, and infections? Dangerous.
 
We re-visited the issue of drink holders for her wheelchair, rejected in the past. Thankfully, Beth gave in this time.
 
Next: Elbow Woes!
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Esther S Merves
11/7/2018 09:14:13 am

All I kept saying out loud was, "Oh my God." After each sentence beginning with the burn. Despite having a busy day of travel today, I wanted to read your blog. Thank you. I am grateful to be co-travelers in the world with you.

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Cindy Kolbe link
11/10/2018 09:27:48 pm

Thanks, Esther! And thank you for joining me on this journey! :-)

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Jason Rhode link
11/11/2018 09:59:29 am

OMG, Cindy, how scary! Thank God, I've never spilled anything on myself to that extent. Now, I've gotten bad sunburns on my legs.

One day I was coming home from work, Joey was making oatmeal when I opened the garage. She jumped, and splashed scalding water on her legs. We threw her out of her chair and got her pants while I got a cool cloth. She still got blisters.

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Cindy Kolbe link
11/13/2018 09:30:59 pm

Yes, burns can be very scary. So glad you were there when Joey was burned and that she’s okay!

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