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a long way from home

10/30/2019

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My November Serendipity Newsletter includes a hardcover book giveaway!
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And here's the next blog segment of our story:
The inauguration of President Barack Obama began the New Year. Beth and I flew to California for the first time, taking the BART train from the San Francisco airport and the Caltrain to Palo Alto and Stanford. We stayed in a hotel near the Caltrain station and walked to campus. Beth met with staff at the Diversity and Access Office and the law school. 
 
A large area under construction near Stanford Law would be the new graduate dorms where she would live. Much closer to classes than when she lived in Harvard’s Quad, with the added advantage of no snow and ice. We walked under the canopy of trees on Palm Drive. 
 
Beth reconnected with two Harvard swim team friends who worked for Facebook in downtown Palo Alto. 
            
At one of Stanford’s heated outdoor pools, I watched Beth while I returned work-related calls. She put her hair in a ponytail, stretched on a swim cap, and swam freestyle, backstroke, and butterfly laps. Each movement was the result of years of practice. After, she lifted herself out of the pool at the corner to sit on the deck. Shining in the sun, she looked up at me with clear blue eyes and an easy dimpled smile. 
 
I wished I could have glimpsed that singular moment after her spinal cord injury. 
            
Beth couldn’t move at all in intensive care almost 10 years earlier, a time when no one imagined her swimming laps in January under California's winter sun. She’d also come a long way from floating free in the rehab pool in Green Springs, Ohio.

The next day, Beth’s right elbow swelled to the size of a baseball, an occasional recurrence aggravated by any kind of physical stress, extra wheeling or swimming or maybe getting bumped the wrong way. On our flight back to Boston, I suggested a power wheelchair to use only part of the time. 
 
Beth wouldn’t consider it.

​Next: Overseas travels, again!
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Esther
10/31/2019 09:44:57 am

Always amazing stories... :)

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Cindy Kolbe link
11/10/2019 03:17:47 pm

Thanks, Esther. My family's story still amazes me, too! :-)

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Amy Henry link
10/31/2019 10:20:02 am

I've only been vaguely aware of the time frame throughout your many posts. Ten years! It's a testament to you both--and the rest of your family. Much devotion. Much sustained work.

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Cindy Kolbe link
11/10/2019 03:26:24 pm

Thanks, Amy! Yes, I wasn't able to start writing about our story until ten years after Beth's injury. The adventures continue!

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